What is polyamory?

Polyamory is a form of relationship in which people have the opportunity to have romantic and/or sexual relationships with multiple partners at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all involved. Polyamory is about openness, honesty and communication. Partners in a polyamorous relationship can form deep emotional bonds with different people, and these relationships can exist in various forms, whether as couples or in complex constellations often referred to as ‘polycules’.

What is the difference between this and an open relationship?

Good question! The boundaries ore often blurred and what counts as open for one may count as poly to another person.

In general, however, you could say that an open relationship is an agreement between partners that allows them to have romantic or sexual relationships outside of their primary relationship. Unlike polyamory, open relationships may place more emphasis on sexual diversity, and emotional attachments may vary. Open relationships also require openness and communication to ensure that everyone involved agrees with the arrangements and boundaries.

Is polygamy the same as polyamory?

No. Polygamy refers to a specific form of marriage in which one person has multiple spouses at the same time. There are two main types of polygamy: polyandry, in which a woman can marry multiple men, and polygyny, in which a man can marry multiple women. Polygamy often has cultural or religious origins and is legal in many parts of the world, but not in others. It is important to note that polygamy is a legal and cultural practice that differs from polyamory and open relationships, as it is often formalised in the form of marriage institutions.

These terms represent different ways in which people shape and live their relationships. It is crucial that all parties involved in these relationships are in agreement and that there is clear communication and openness in order to ensure healthy and respectful coexistence.

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Want to learn more? Read more about styles of polyamory and about commonly used words.